Carolina Springs Academy: A New Look

My whole life was thrown in a lot of differenttook me a long time to really look at things and
directions when I started high school. I wanted thesee how I contributed and why I wanted to be
acceptance, I wanted the perfect boyfriend and Isomeone I was not. I go through my struggles
wanted to fit in. I changed my entire life to fit thewith my mom and dad, but my parents and I
mold of what I thought I should be like. I put onhave pulled it together. I no longer hold things
the fake smile to look as if I was actually happy. Iback from them. In fact, I am a lot more honest
entered the party world with the drugs and thewith how I feel.
alcohol. I thought it was the thing to do. I shut outI still struggle with wanting to be accepted by
my parents and I shut out everyone who trulypeople but I have realized that not everyone is
cared about me. The only thing that trulygoing to like me. I have also learned what I do
mattered was being able to escape the hellish lifeand do not want in my space. I look at what I
I lived.want in relationships with friends and boyfriends.
I went to desperate measures when all I wantedMy parents and I have become so close especially
to do was end it all and not have to wake up andsince staffing Discovery with them. I had the
face the agony all over again. I used excuses tochance of a lifetime to share the love my family
why I should end my life. The only thing that kepthas to offer with other people. To see people
me from it was the fact that I was scared.smile and cry and to touch peoples lives with our
Mostly I was scared of myself.life story was an awesome experience. Now as I
My parents knew something was wrong but Ilook back on where I was and where I am now, I
never would admit it to them because I did notcan truly say I am happy with who I am. I never
believe there was anything wrong. I got so angrythought in my wildest dreams that my life would
with my parents that all I did was yell and screamcome together or that my parents and I could
to be in control. My dad and I had no relationshipget along together again.
because all I wanted to do was controlI have had many people touch my life in so many
everything. I put my mom on the guilt trip andways: the staff at Carolina Springs, my Family
told her that she was just trying to screw up myRep, the students, and most of all the seminars.
life when she did not let me do what I wanted.All I can sayis that no matter how hard life gets,
I entered Carolina Springs Academy on Octoberand no matter where the path may lead, thereis
10, 2002. For a while I was indenial about why Ialways a better answer than leaving behind the
was here in the Program and that my life waspeople you love. Now I start anew journey with a
fine. I dramatizedmany things. Then when I madewhole new book and a whole new outlook on life!
Upper Level, I saw what I wanted in my life. It