Deadline For Preschool Adds to the Pressures of Potty Training

Parents are scrambling to beat the potty-trainingmovement.
clock. It's a huge problem and it always comesIf at least eight of these signs apply to your child,
down to this time of year with most preschoolshe or she's ready. If five to seven apply, revisit
getting under way by mid-September.your child's readiness in a month. If four or fewer
Combine that with the fact that, according to theapply, wait a few months.
Children's Hospital Guide to Your Child's Health andOn the other hand, here are four reasons that
Development, 40 percent of 3-year-olds still usenow isn't the right time to potty-train a child:
diapers, and the rush is on. But how can you tell* You've recently moved into a new home. Give
whether a child is ready?your child at least a few months to adjust to the
* He/She relates to and imitates older children.new environment.
* He/She can safely walk to and from the toilet.* You're going to or have recently expanded your
* He's/She's starting to understand where hisfamily. This includes giving birth, adopting and
toys and other possessions belong.blending families. Toddlers need a lot of positive
* He's/She's saying "no" and responding negativelyattention during such a transition, and learning new
less often.skills can be too challenging if they feel stress
* He's/She's interested in trying to do things "byabout this kind of change.
him or herself."* You're going through a significant family loss,
* He/She knows that some of his/her peers aresuch as divorce or the death of a family member
potty-trained.or a pet.
* He/She understands the meanings of using the* You've recently changed child-care providers or
potty and no more diapers and can discuss thekindergarten teachers. Wait until you see the
subject.child's comfort level with the new teacher or
* His/Her diaper is staying dry for longer.situation increase before embarking on toilet
* He/She frequently wakes up with a dry diaper.training.
* He/She stops playing to squat for a bowel