Teenage Turmoil

Teenage Turmoilsocial gathering of sorts. From a child attending
high school, popularity is important because it
decides where you sit at lunch, which clique you
“I dress the part,” Woodward went on tofall into, who you will go to prom
say, “the way we [teenagers] dress is awith—popularity is a vital organ to the student
costume for that role we are playing…we couldbody.
be the bad boy, the good girl, the nerd, or thePicture the group of high school students as a
social outcast who dresses like a rocker.”whole—they are a body, quite literally.
Kurt is seen strutting around campus with a singlePopularity decides which organ you are and how
folder, a Les Paul strapped to his back, a pencilyou aid your body with your skills.
behind his ear, and a paperback book folded in hisNow that the popularity level has been acquired,
back pocket—he plays the role of thethere is minimal tolerance for intermingling, unless
misunderstood outcast who lives for his music,it is business only—i.e. the nerds getting paid to
but it goes without saying that he is an intelligentdo assignments.
individual, as the few passers-by view that theSuch stereotyping tears apart friendships that
book he carries along is actually Metamorphosis byhave been long lasting, up until the point of high
Franz Kafka.school.
Kurt is just one of the majorities of teenagersRegrettably, this is inevitable because the teenage
who has become entombed in the overly-critical,stereotypes put in place force friendships
stereotypical, identification of teenagers.between “your kind” among the cliques.
There are the “bad boys” whom all theVery few kids break the barriers of social
girls should stay away from, yet fall for anywaysdiscrimination, and even fewer do it successfully.
disregarding the parental concept of ‘ulteriorThe way to break through the once-believed
motives.’indestructible barricade is through a universal
Then there are the “good girls”—youlanguage. Many assume English is, or should be,
know the ones that say “yes ma’am”the universal language however not all cultures
and “no sir” and sit in their swank clothes,know the English language. Even though English is
crossed legged.not the universal language, one still exists, and
Your typical nerd is classified as the commondoes so in everyone’s life no matter what
bookworm with a twist in fashion/ social sense;language they speak—music. Music is a
the high water jeans, dress shirt, lace ups,dramatic part of every culture; it doesn’t
glasses, and a pocket protector. Many adolescentsmatter if you are Hispanic, Asian, Caucasian, or if
can spot a “nerd” a mile away, wheneveryou are an immigrant because music is
a book report or a project needs to be done, butuniversal—music sends messages to the public
is otherwise invisible.in every culture.
Speaking of invisibility, we are left with theIf more musicians, who are former high school
outcast—“the rocker”/ “emo”/students, took the time to compose a song
“indie kid” who essentially operatealbum about tolerance and to fight the high school
according to their music tastes, but are oftenstereotypes, then there would be less of damage
misunderstood and have the ability, unlike mostto the psyche of the already unstable high school
teenagers, to see the big picture.children.
Although most people do not consider themselvesChildren, especially those in high school, appreciate
judgmental or bias, the truth is that everyone fallsmusic greatly.
victim to stereotypes and we were the ones toAn enthusiastic ‘good girl’ and senior at
create them in the first place. A good number ofCharter Oak High School, Vanessa Crockett
adults do not consider colleagues’ remarksexpressed, “music is my life. I live, eat, and
and disapproval but teenagers do andbreathe music.”
stereotyping them only further induces the cycle.Therefore, tolerance and anti-stereotypical
Kurt, unfortunately, is a casualty to the warfaremessages should be implemented in today’s
of perception and “normalcy” however heobsessive culture.
is not alone. Many children all over are“Honestly, if Snow Patrol or Avenged
stereotyped as Kurt was, thus deciding hisSevenfold performed songs that prove these
popularity or status, if you will, in the school.[stereotypes] wrong, then more people would
As one reads this, one questions whetherlisten…I know I would,” commented Frankie
popularity actually means anything.McMillan, a sophomore at San Dimas High School.
“People knowing your name at school makesIn short: stereotypes are rampant in the lives of
absolutely no difference, because once you gethigh school students and have yet to be
out into the world you start over,”contained. However with music change is possible;
commented Mary Ellen Ashby, a neighborlywith music stereotypes might cease to exist,
bystander.which could reduce violence in high schools, being
While all of what was previously said is true, oneas though most high school fights are fought
must look at the child’s point of view. School,between people belonging to different cliques.
high school especially, is seen by children as a